Am I healed yet?

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How do you know if you are healed? Is it even possible to heal completely or do we just learn to deal with pain that never really goes away?

Often times I find myself questioning: Am I really healed this time?

Let me explain. Towards the end of 2017 I experienced one of the most painful moments in my life. My romantic relationship with my best friend of 6 years had ended with an ultimatum. Either I could…